Self Improvement Made Easy

I will be seeing my ex this week, which we have done a couple of times since our break 2 months ago.We were together nearly 3 years.After our meet I am going to not contact her for 1 month unless she calls me & in that month I am going to work hard on self improvement which I have already began to do and I have a driving test booked &have a deposit on a car.
Do you think if I go at improving my life like crazy that I can draw back my ex to me so we can eventually get back into a relationship because she just wants to be friends?

When we were together we had a lot of pressure around us due to my mothers terminal illness which I handled well but just caused silly little arguements which were magnified.
So do you think I have a chance of her changing her mind if I don't contact her for a while?Because even though we have been split for 2 months and only seen each other twice I have been in contact with her for every one of the weeks, so I don't think I have given her a chancetomissme
I am also going for councilling to sort out silly things I have noticed about myself that I don't like, so when I say self improvement I mean, mentally, physically and in my life style.